A few more things about my approach, I think it’s working. Friday night I planned an evening out for myself. I treated myself to dinner and a movie.
He tried everything he could to throw me off. He asked where I was going. I told him nothing. He then asked if I wanted to go out to dinner. I politely declined and said I already have plans.
He persisted and continued to ask where I was going. I messed up and told him to a movie (I’m still learning how to detach). I know I shouldn’t have told him that. I won’t do that again. But his response was, what time and not did I buy a ticket for him. I told him none of his bisinsss on the time of the movie and that no I didn’t buy him a ticket.
He sat in the bathroom and watched me put my makeup on. He told me how good I looked good to him. He said I can tell your loosing weight. He then again said how good I looked to him said he wanted me so bad right now. I continued to get dressed. He got mad, I guess because I didn’t respond the way he wanted. He said it’s [censored] that he has to watch me get all dressed up to go out without him.
When I left he wouldn’t even look at me and just said have a good time and be careful. The next morning I woke up and he was lying next to me. I asked what the heck he was doing in the bed. He said, I’m not touching you so I’m behaving. I just needed to be close to you. He then was very curious about my evening. How was the movie...blah blah blah. I swear it’s all very weird. For a man so sure he is no longer in love with me, he’s acting like a sick puppy.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together