Wow! I think I just may have blown a gasket had my spouse thrown my lack of marriage duties at me, and for my compassionate, forgiving self, that is saying something. Well done girl!
As you have undoubtably heard this is a marathon and not a sprint, a fact I believe not lost on you. I like your approach, your focus on you and kids, and your filling up that free time. Funny I remember never have much free time before BD, but after, egads there is a lot - well for a while.
It was really hard to maintain my composure when he said that. I laughed so hard. That really confused him. I wanted to really let him have it. But I figured what good is that going to do. All we will do is end discussing things that he clearly doesn’t care about. I just wanted to get him out of the bed and out of the room. So I remained firm and with an attitude he left. He then sent me a text message from the other room that said “this is so hard”. I replied “you will be fine, good night.”
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
