job,

I forgot to answer a few more of your questions.

After the affair, I got checked out and I’m fine medically. No gifts that keep giving. 🙌🏽

I think after he told me that he wasn’t happy we were having a Sexathon. It was good sex too. But I haven’t had sex with him in almost 2 weeks. He wants it and he wants it bad. But I refuse. Once he told me he planned to leave and didn’t want to work on the marriage, I cut that off. The last time we slept together he immediately got up and left and went and slept in the other room. I felt like a booty call and I said to myself that, that won’t happen again. He’s getting what he wants and I’m left feeling horrible. He said he’s sorry he’s confusing me and doesn’t want to lead me on, that’s why he went and slept in the other room. So I choose my self respect over allowing him to treat me like a doormat.


Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together