Update.....she’s been home all week, very concerned though that all positive interaction has been while she has been drinking. Communication during the day is better though.
Last night though something went down, someone we were talking to had a boyfriend cheat on her and she is in a bad place. I confirmed with her that cheaters suck with a high five. My wife took offense to that and it she couldn’t let it go. She made a trip to the bathroom and when she came back said she was going out with friends Sunday to watch games and might not be home. We know what that means.
She did finally make it to IC on Thursday and liked it and has another appt next week. She expressed to me all the pain that I have caused her in M and that her only support team is her S22 and OM. C asked if I was one of the people in her life that she had to remove and she said no, she is working on removing the negative peopl from her life.
I feel I acted a bit passive aggressive with my action last night and can only wonder if that pushed her to reach out to OM. I’m sure she still talks to him but it has been weeks since i think she has seen him.
I need to regroup a little now to get my self back to where I was.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
