Thanks, guys. I'm still optimistic, remember no expectations. In fact, until your responses, I simply saw this as a small setback.
Maybe all this other behavior has all been just to keep the peace? Perhaps, but I don't think so and it really doesn't matter. I'm done trying to fix her and I'm detached to a great extent.
If anything it has been a reminder that if there is to be proper R it has to be proper.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.