Thanks, guys. I'm still optimistic, remember no expectations. In fact, until your responses, I simply saw this as a small setback.

Maybe all this other behavior has all been just to keep the peace? Perhaps, but I don't think so and it really doesn't matter. I'm done trying to fix her and I'm detached to a great extent.

If anything it has been a reminder that if there is to be proper R it has to be proper.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.