Originally Posted by Twofeet
I then listed of some items she was getting that she apparently DIDN'T realize so it stopped that conversation, but she continued to pout.



correction did to didn't

Also couldn't help myself I snooped. It looks like she went and bought more stuff while she was out. I have noticed a pattern with her. Post-BD when she buys stuff, and if it comes in the mail she tries to intercept the package and open it in secret. She has also been buying clothes and shoes and hiding it in her car, she then integrates it into her life. Example: she bought some really expensive shoes, but hides them in her car. When the time is right she puts them in our closet and disposes of the shoebox & shopping bag. Later, if I notice the shoes I would say oh those are nice shoes when did you get those? She would say oh these shoes, they aren't new, I have had them for months/years.
Now that I think about it this isn't totally new. She has just gotten worse since Post-BD. She is binge spending.


H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19