Completely agree that SM is a bit of a game. I actually very rarely post anything (maybe 4-6/yr) the last 3 years or so and only keep it active due to some old friends I still like to see what’s going on in their lives. My w is similar in which she doesn’t post often to SM, so do see it’s all a game.
I believe at my stage everything my WAS does she parlays into trying to keep any semblance of control over me. Exactly why she changed up her schedule last night and then shows up 15 minutes late. She’s grasping at straws now that I’ve fully taken my b@lls back from her and returned back to the alpha version of myself I once was.
A bit of journaling: W sent another text this a.m, asking to come over again to get a coat for S. I’m certain he has one at her place. I had already left for my men’s group but happened to have the coat S wore last night in car and offered to bring by. W said ok but then asked what I was doing and what I had planned for the day. I ignored and just said I would have S coat dropped off while they would be away while getting some allergy shots. Left on her back porch. More interaction last 5 days than last 5 months. No expectations. Continue GAL activities and keep her out of it.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
