Unsure what's next, what to do.....Part II

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It's very common for the WAS/WS to convey feelings of confusion. Sometimes I think they convey that as a way of saving your feelings. They really know what they want (out) but don't want to hurt you.

After our therapy session, I told her, "I'm already hurt. I already have a suspicion this is over and I'm preparing as though it is. So, I just want the truth. If the truth hurts, it's not going to hurt any less down the road than it will now. I will respect your opinion and will appreciate your truthfulness." She validated me after I said that but never went on to say anything one way or another. I do feel like with all of the personal issues pertaining to her trauma is playing a major factor. Probably a fatigue factor like my IC brought up. W admitted that after IC said that, she agreed with it. And honestly, it does make a lot of sense. So, my gut tells me she is truly conflicted but again, I'm trying not to believe anything she says, either.

Thanks for the insight, Steve.