It's very common for the WAS/WS to convey feelings of confusion. Sometimes I think they convey that as a way of saving your feelings. They really know what they want (out) but don't want to hurt you.

Other times they truly are dealing with an internal struggle. They truly are conflicted. They are excited by the propects of a new life, but feel bad about ruining other people's lives. My wife described it as being at the McDonald's drive thru where you pull up and have to decide to go into the right or left order line. And not sure which is the best one to choose.

But in either case you're right. You need to give her the time and space to decide.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018