But, resentment is useless, isn't it? Doesn't stop us from feeling it, but only time I think can start dulling it so it doesn't take such sudden hold of us. It will eventually, I hope, just be a fleeting thought easily passed by as we get on with living.
For sure, it is more than useless, it is damaging to the soul. It will eat away at a person from the inside if you let it. I have seen more than a few divorced people who can't move on with their lives, so strong is this feeling.
You are very early in your sitch and it is to be expected. It will dull with time for sure. At this point I can see it for what it is when the feeling crops up and then let it go to focus my mind elsewhere. I'd just like to be able to drop it completely and move on to acceptance, or at least indifference.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
