I can guarantee you that once she is out of the house, detaching will become so much easier to grab a hold of. Sometimes I wished my WAW still lived in the house so I could have more interaction. But I also know I wouldn’t be as outcome independent as I am now.
As for kids, I have stuggled to keep my honesty at bay with S at times when he’s hurting. I’m a work in progress but I think you may need to keep a neutral front and not attach blame for anything.
This is classic "grass is greener" thinking when it comes to our sitches. Those with in house separation say "it is too hard to detach". And those with actual physical separation say "I could show her my GAL and 180s better if she were still here."
Bottom line, no matter your sitch, you detach, 180, and GAL for YOU! If you keep the focus on you then your WASs proximity won't matter.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
