I can guarantee you that once she is out of the house, detaching will become so much easier to grab a hold of. Sometimes I wished my WAW still lived in the house so I could have more interaction. But I also know I wouldn’t be as outcome independent as I am now.
As for kids, I have stuggled to keep my honesty at bay with S at times when he’s hurting. I’m a work in progress but I think you may need to keep a neutral front and not attach blame for anything.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
