Now, if wanting to R ends up being her decision, she isn't going to just walk back in to my open arms. She is going to have to prove to me that she's 100% committed to making it work. And that isn't going to happen by just her saying she is. She needs to prove that through consistent action.
Easy to say but harder to do. You are on the right track if you stay committed to what you wrote above. It's the only way it woks out long term.
This is my opinion only and shouldn't change the way you handle yourself. I highly doubt OM is completely out of the picture.
