Even though your D is not final yet I would highly recommend you get a parenting plan in place ASAP. My X moved out 3 weeks after BD and we have split time with the kids 50/50 from that time on. Additionally we did not spend Thanksgiving or Christmas together as a family, including our birthdays. The only time we have come together is for the kids birthdays. Why would you want to spend any time with someone who wants to D you??????
