What an awesome post, Opt. I am proud of you for staying and growing. I know it has been difficult. But staying and growing is a fine alternative to the opposite.
We missed August...
Still here, but getting a D. Yo and I had good plans, though. I'm glad your H told you he loved you more than you know. Remember that when the going gets tough. Someday, the two of you will have the happily ever after... you are on the way.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.