The question in itself doesn't matter now any more, because of the way things are now, but I'd still be interested in hearing your thoughts and ideas.
If having children was so important to my XH (based on him having a child with OW less than a year after he left), why did he never, ever bring up the subject with me?
I'm not hurt, or angry, or have any strong feelings about it either way. I'm just confused. It doesn't make sense to me. If something is *that* important to you, why not mention it, or bring it up?
