R2C & RyanHun,

Thanks for the advice. It's hard to hear the truth sometimes, especially when it relates to the kids. Right now W just wants to be an absent parent and I just have to accept this.

Here is another question. My intel has it that W is going out about the town both Friday night and Saturday night. No idea for sure if its Gal Pals or on dates. While it bothers me it doesn't really matter anymore. Friday the kids are with my inlaws for the night. I don't have any GAL plans other than staying home and picking up my old woodworking hobby. However Saturday I have been invited to an event. I haven't told W yet. She doesn't know I know her plans. I am expecting her to get mad because I won't be her babysitter on Sat and my family is too busy to watch them not sure if her family wants to watch them again either. This may seem trivial but any advice on how handle this? I am expecting her to blow up and honestly I am just getting tired of it.

Btw W won't be moving to her house until next weekend now.

Last edited by Twofeet; 11/02/18 02:05 AM.

H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19