That is good that W Let you take D10 I believe the more you detach and be cordial, and kind but distant and safe she may let go of S
Im glad you thanked her let her think she is the hero--The good one
this may cause her to want to give you more-
Maybe with W not allowed to get too close, will create enough distance fromt he situation and she may begin to let go more especially if she wand OW want to play and go out-
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