13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

I will admit, that it made me happy that she announced that she would not be going to OM no more, however I see your logic, and I will continue, and am glad, that I chose to ignore her and that my focus is 95% (getting there) on me and my kids.

I am working out 4 times a week after work, doing gymnastics with my kids, being with friends and family in the weekends and I play golf 2 - 3 times a week. First I did this only to get away from home and I came to the realization that I lost out on a lot of time with my kids by acting like this. Now I try to include my kids a lot more in my GAL, and I seem to have found a nice balance (still work in progress).

My weeks are actually quite filled with activities involving both my kids, but also activities that are just for me and my friends. (golf, gym, going out).

If the house sells quick (as we suspect it will), then I will be moving into a rental close to my WW so the kids are close, and then I will proceed to detach, do 180 and basically my logic is - If she wants to be with me, she will have to show it. I fought for 3 months now, and it is her time to take over, if not, then I will find happiness elsewhere I am sure.

Most important thing for me right now, is the happiness and secured future of my two little ones.