Here's a question I could use help on: If we are close to the end of the month, and he mentions nothing about R, what should I do?
Nothing. It seems like your relationship is present enough at the moment. I would keep the pressure off.
Originally Posted by Grace21
I plan to ask him to celebrate Thanksgiving with us for the kids sake.
I dont understand this. It isnt like the kids are little and need shielding from everything. How is having a family dinner beneficial for them? I think it's OK to offer that he come....but it doesnt seem like its honestly "for the kids sake".
If you are divorced, would you still invite him? If he was remarried, would you still invite him?
