Update...W continuing to check in with plans, current events etc with zero prodding. Work drama is through the roof and she was out on a bender last night but has kept in touch with me. Has her first IC visit scheduled this AM so I have my fingers crossed that it will be the beginning of something positive for her. She is scared but knows this is about her...not us, she seems ready to open up about her troubled past.
Still self medicating as I have realized that in the last 13 days she has been drinking considerably for 11 of those days that I am aware of. And we know the last 5 months has been much of the same.
Well that is her update and I hope for the best for her, but my sitch is going better than expected. No anxiety about her being away, S14 and I went out to eat last night, he came home to do homework and I stopped in a new local watering hole to meet some friends. Not one conversation or comment about wives, sitches, etc. Also had long conversation with brother who is across country about things that I have planned in the next few months. Coming to his wedding in Vegas in Dec, getting motorcycle license and bike in 2019, career advancement that has been put off due to not taking chances and staying safe for benefit of wife. Very excited about the future and being happy.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
