13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

Update:

So basically she has been moping around the house acting like a sad puppy for the last 24 hours. I suspect that it is in fact OM who ended things btetween them as she was really hooked on abandoning us all for her new endeavors with him.

Last night I arrived home from the gym to find her in the couch all packed up in blankets and looking like crap. I sat down for 30 minutes, had a bite to eat, and she asked me how my training went and acted all polite, but didn't talk at all about us or the OM, so I just ignored every urge to talk to her, and told her I would call it an early night and went to bed.

She was really active on the phone, and I saw that she were engaged in a heavy texting correspondence, so I suspect she is either trying to sort things out with OM or seeking support from her girlfriends - not my problem i told my self.

This morning she wandered around the house in a towel after having showered, I couldn't help but notice of course. I didn't say anything though.

Tonight she is going to be heading out to a mutual friends house probably to get emotional support - I am going to continue 180 and detach until she comes around, or not. Either way the house is going for sale on sunday.

I am 100 % positive that she is still in contact with OM on the phone (maybe elsewhere as well) so I am not having my hopes up just because she came home and said she wouldn't be going there anymore...

Am I doing the right thing?