I had the kids all weekend and I totally failed with my efforts to detach. I was so bothered wondering what he might be doing this weekend and with who. I sent him a couple texts on Saturday. Just random crap. He responded. Nothing big but I wish I hadn’t done it.
I went out Saturday and Monday night when I didn’t have the kids. He sent me text messages late in the evening on both nights asking what I was up to. I said I was out with friends.
Today we both volunteered at my son’s Halloween party at school. After it was done, he sent me a text saying I looked really good and was definitely a MILF 🙄. I joked with him and said thanks. Then literally two minutes later he said “On another note...” and proceeded to ask me my lawyer’s contact info so his lawyer could finalize the parenting plan. Then he asked if I’d taken the state mandated parenting class that’s required within 60 days of filing for divorce (which he hasn’t done yet but says he will once the parenting plan is finalized). Then he pressures me about how slow my job search is going, even though a week and a half ago he sweetly told me not to worry and he was still here to support me until I found a job. He was nice about all this, but how do you go from flirting with me and calling me a MILF to parenting plan/divorce details in the span of two minutes? Ugh.
