Saw H a few times this week as he sets up for Halloween. We will be doing it big tonight. It's so weird. He comes over and it's like nothing is happening. Chit Chat. Easy and not strained. For example this morning he arrives early:
H: The place I'm at now doesn't have strong WiFi. Have to get a bit of work done before I work on Halloween stuff. M: How's your new place. H: It's a lot better than the dump I was in. M: Glad to hear that. H: I don't know if I'll get back to the gym. It's kind of far. May look into one closer to where I'm staying. M: I can see why you would do that ( while secretly thinking why pay for another gym when you are suppose to only be out for 1 more month then we reassess.?) H: I will be around next week but travel the week after. M: I remember you mentioning that. I had forgotten when you were going.
He then takes a work call and I go to work.
It's a little weird. We start Month #2 tomorrow with him out.
Here's a question I could use help on: If we are close to the end of the month, and he mentions nothing about R, what should I do? Should I just let him initiate any conversation on whether he plans to extend his absence? I plan to ask him to celebrate Thanksgiving with us for the kids sake. So maybe wait until after that and see what happens?
I realized I'm not in any hurry for him to determine whether he wants to work on the marriage or not. I'm GAL and enjoying it for the most part!
Get to see S21 this weekend, and have plans Friday night and Sunday night, with church and other activities during the day. Life is good.
