BM, be careful. Your STBXW has shown a penchant for manipulation. This could be another attempt to get the mediation agreement nullified.

Remember, believe nothing she says. And only half of what she does. Stay strong. Stay consistent. I see nothing so far to suggest you shouldn't continue on the path you were on two days ago. Get a lawyer. Get the D restarted. Enforce the mediation agreement.

You are at a dangerous point right now. Do not fall for the false bone she is going to throw you of hope. Your texting the last few days, to me, has shown her you are still too attached and open to manipulation attempts. Go back to ONLY answering direct questions. In as few words as possible. Texts sharing info do not need a response at all. Yes or no questions get a simple yes or no.

Don't dismiss Joe's perspective. Whether you see it or not, your STBXW certainly does.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018