IMO you seem to have to have the last word. You have a need to explain yourself.
Except I didn't.
After she said "have a good night", I stopped responding.
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Also, you used sending that picture as a way of communicating with your W.
Because in our conversation she asked me to send it to her, and I said that I would. It's that simple. It wasn't an "excuse", it was following through with something she asked me to do that would help schedule time for her with S.
You kind of misinterpreted that. And while I have been guilty of that before, this time it wasn't that way.
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You explain why you apologized, then got into a debate about how to argue.
Actually...and surprisingly...this wasn't an argument. It was civil discussion. I was expressing that I understand that we both resolve issues differently. This was NOT an argument. There was NO debate about "how to argue". It was: "I understand you feel that way. I feel this way. I can see we're different in that respect." That's not an argument, that's an observation.
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It's not about what you want anymore when dealing with your Sitch, it's what will work best, and if what you wanted work, you wouldn't be here.
I'm here because WW left me with zero answers and temporarily ruined my life. You are assuming a LOT about what I want now, because things have changed drastically since my first post.
It's not even about what I want anymore. It's about what S needs. And what I want is for S to be okay.
