Then she burst in tears and excused herself. I asked her if she was okay to which she replied no, not at all.. I didn't respond to her answer nor did I comfort her in any ways. I just made breakfast for me and the kids and attended to their needs and my own.
She proceeded to delete all the calendar dates where she was supposed to leave the house to be with OM.
You proceed with strength and zero toleration of this BS behavior. Writing on the family calendar nights she's staying at OMs. WTF? If it was me I would set that calendar on fire.
The tears are fake so I wouldn't put much stock into it.
You are on the right path. Boundaries, boundaries and boundaries.
