13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

Thank you so much for that very thoroughly written and very helpful input and insight into my very messy life at this point of time .

I honestly have been reading your post 3-4 times this morning, and every time I find myself nodding and realizing that both parts involving me and my WW are spot on.

I had a great sleep after setting boundaries and speaking up for my self yesterday, throwing her out of the MBR and cut her off financially.

And now it gets really interesting.....

This morning she came in, and told me, that she would not be leaving home sunday through wednesday, as she had planned to. In fact she would not be going there anymore. Then she burst in tears and excused herself. I asked her if she was okay to which she replied no, not at all.. I didn't respond to her answer nor did I comfort her in any ways. I just made breakfast for me and the kids and attended to their needs and my own.

She proceeded to delete all the calendar dates where she was supposed to leave the house to be with OM.

How do I proceed from here? I guess she is the one that i supposed to be showing interest in me if there is to be something to work on, and if not, then I just proceed with detaching, 180 and having the real estate broker over this sunday?