It's good that you remained calm.

I noticed a couple of things you could improve.

1. "I'm sorry you feel that way" is not validation.

2. Stop touching her car. Even to detail.

3. The comment about her attorney was unnecessary and baiting.

Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16