Firstly, do you know the friend. You have a right to know who is looking after your children.
IMHO you are better off without her whilst she goes through the crazies. Don't get pulled into her s**t. Keep yourself focused. The goal right now is to demonstrate that you are the stable parent. This means not allowing yourself to get baited, not throwing [censored] back and not being ruled by your emotions.
Originally Posted by crofton
. Just all about the kids now
Good. Remember this when she is throwing all sorts of vitriol at you and you need to think straight.