Well my meet up with WAW went about as I expected...

She was mad I had all her items that she wanted at the front door. There was one thing that I couldn’t find and I let her go to the basement...she goes off the rail saying it took her years of asking me to clean it and now that she’s gone it’s spotless. I just say I can’t change the past.

She blamed me for “trashing her car”....which I detailed this morning. She then claimed the the Jeep wasn’t safe to have S in....yet it’s been ok for me to drive him around in last 8 months??

She then proceeded to gaslight our entire marriage saying how it was all bad and now I’m being unreasonable with everything. I just validated saying sorry you feel that way.

She then gave me a skoaling look and tells me “your getting everything and I’m getting nothing”. It was a look and stare where I used to give her a smirk in return. I once again validated and remained calm.

I then said it’s unfortunate that her attorney in racking up her legal fees on petty issues. She then turned it around and made that my fault...

Long and short WAW mentality of gaslighting and blame shifting any and everything back to me.

I let it roll off me like water in a ducks back. Lol.

W then left while giving me a huff. I just smiled and said enjoy the rest of your day.

I feel like I handled the situation pretty well. Any feedback from board is appreciated if I did something wrong??
The fact the W had that much frustration and anger still tells me she cares.
Fact is that nothing is going how she envisioned and is throwing a huge tantrum that she no longer has any control over me.

Felt good that I didn’t let her anger or emotions impact my mood. I was centered the entire interaction.

I continue to DB...
GAL activities included 5 mile run, Divorcecare group, wash and detail my old “new” car.


Last edited by EZdozit; 10/30/18 11:12 PM.
Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis