W did tell text me some 8 hours later to say 'Just so you know the Op date is 16th November' and that was it.
Have now emailed her offering to come and stay with my S for 2 weeks when W is in hospital with D. Also offered to stay with D for 4 weeks whilst she recovers so W can go to work and not have all the burden. Also said I don't think it's right for S to stay with friends during this time as he needs his father and D also needs me.
Her response was a friend is coming to stay for 2 weeks with S and she doesn't want me to come and help with her recovery, Also get from her kids don't want to see me, which is not right. It's her doing this.
Have left it and will discuss with L on Friday.
Got to the point now where really have lost all respect for W. Keep thinking how did I marry such a nasty vile person. This is helping me detach though so that's good. Just all about the kids now for me as can't even contemplate a R anymore.
