I think this is too big a deal for you to basically play games like "I won't be saying anything as I want to see when she chooses to tell me...." If she won't talk to you about it and work with you on this, you need to get the attorney involved ASAP. Your daughter needs you. You can't let your W keep you away from caring for D.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
