Gordie, you are doing what you feel is right and nobody on here understands exactly what it is like in your home and your relationship. Even though there are similarities within all of our situations, our relationships are just as different as fingerprints...no two are alike.

From the get go, you have done all you could to understand what was going on...now you are at a place that many never arrive at. This is kind of uncharted territory. As you go thru your daily life and journal here, those of us that are still following along and hoping that our spouses finish cooking are on the edge of our seat with anticipation of your success. You are rocking what is being thrown at you. I toast you every night for your courage and your tenacity, and I keep praying that hearts are softened for complete healing and restoration for not only your marriage, but all of ours.

Keep kicking ass my brother!!!


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!