Interpretation of scripture can be a real distraction here. IMO

LV, came here to avoid D and R his marriage. Things change. But as has been revealed many many times here, the prudent application of DB methods will benefit the LBS regardless of how the MR turns out.
Without attracting the WW/WAW back, he will not even have the choice to accept W back.

That will be his choice.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.