Ready2Change - thanks for the tip regarding the book. I am reading this now and it is very interesting.
So have been waiting for a date for my daughter's operation, she is having open heart surgery. A massive op where she needs 2 weeks in intensive care and then 4 weeks recovery. The plan was always for me to spend a lot of the recovery time with her as I can work from home in my job. This is out of the window now as my W is going for the Occupation Order where I am not allowed within 100 metres of the house. This to me is totally wrong especially with her op, it shows she has no regard for our children.
Today I got a date for the op, I had spoken to the department and explained the sich with me and W. So the secretary called me this morning to confirm the date, she also said she had told my W just before calling me. My W does not know they have told me and I have told them not to.
So it's now 3 hours later and nothing from the W to tell me when the date is. I won't be saying anything as I want to see when she chooses to tell me or if at all. To me this is a massive deal, I think it is utterly disgraceful to behave this way. I really am beginning to lose any respect for her.
No contact with kids still, been 10 days now. Seeing Lawyer on Friday.