Of course, it is all speculation.

But I believe that his W is running away from all thing LW. This includes the one and only true God. All this crystal new age garbage is a mear rebellion.

God uses our pain to heal that pain. This "control issue" may well be a symptom of an early life injury. Many on here use NGS to hide from their injury. Bottom line is they are not fulfilling their God given Masculinity. Ws don't like it either. In short, in order for her to expose her true Feminity, she must feel this masculinity. DBing is in large part all about this.

I imagine that LW wouldn't stay with a non-christian W. Period. IMO, this is more of a boundary then a control.

Given time and progress, nothing is out of the question.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.