Hmmm. Good question. I’ve mainly focused on detaching and GAL. But I guess what comes to mind is actively resisting telling H what I think he should do, for example with interacting with the kids, visiting his mom or following up on medical appointments. I used to organize everything, and am just stepping back and waiting for H to bring it up if he wants. Not much of that is going on as we don’t see each other much, but I am aware of it when we do interact.
I think I'll refresh myself on this concept and see where I can improve. Thanks for the reminder.
