Uncertain phase of MLC

[peacetoday]

Hi

Ive read a lot of stories here and many of them are slightly different

A DB coach once told me to notice the behaviors that pull them Closer as well,l as the ones that push them away
This way I could practice the ones that seem to help with the R


Its hard to really pin down where we stand with the MLCer especially when she keeps expressing the desire to work at it
and is willing to be with you-
I don't have any experience with that end because when My XH left , he moved in with A partner, eventually M her and D her. But there was never any talk of ever coming back-

Job and Cadet probably know everything there is to know about MLC,
You will see the road she takes, but it usually takes time if it is true MLC
2-7 years

As time passes, you will get information about her choices...In the mean time, it is best to focus on you and kids
be supportive and cordial, helpful and follow her lead-

Be positive maybe take up a new hobby-You will know more later

It seems she could turn in any direction and she seems confused-