Not really - but it may be my only option. I wouldn’t be able to live elsewhere with 5 kids (can’t afford / shortage of larger properties) and I can’t make him leave either. As we have to live in the same space I would rather it be friendly for the kids sake. I can’t talk to him about any of this as I know he will see it as pressure and run away (as in disappear overnight to his friends).

It’s our wedding anniversary on Thursday too - not planning on even mentioning it.


M: 17 T:17 Me:42 H:48
BD 23/12/2017 H says ‘I don’t want to be married’
D 17 D 15, D 13, S 10, S 10