you go and do that if you really enjoy drama and emotional stress. W's bff is a major source of conflict. W's bff's AP/BF is a POS. He taunted your friend about the affair. I don't know how your friend didn't get in a fight right there. I couldn't forgive that (not that these scumbags are asking for forgiveness).
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.