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Thank you Maika and Neffer.

Updating:

So tired, work is really busy and I do not have a day off, but its all good I will be off 4 days for Thanksgiving. I am just getting ready to hit the gym and i thought I would journal.

D24 and i have been texting back and forth about finances and saving. She was asking about Dave Ramsey. I really like discussing things with her so I said you do realize DR is a minimalist. I said you already are, you are the most frugle in the family. She agreed and we talked about opening up a mutual fund and IRA for her. I explained that you can really grow financially if you go slow and steady. When she comes for Thanksgiving we will talk about opening a brokerage account.

S21 made his first arrest last night and he has not come home, he has been at work for over 24 hours. He texted to say everything was ok and we will talk when he gets here. I made dinner for him, grilled chicken, broccoli, and sweet potatoes. He is going to be exhausted.

S23 just got home from Las Vegas, he doesnt gamble but has friends there and they went to several concerts. He has firmly commited to going back to college and furthering his education. This makes me so proud.

D19 Is starting to accept the fact that W and I will be D'ing and has built up resentment for W. I uderstand and I just validate her feeling and let her know I am here for her. She said Saturday night was a blast as they had a Halloween party at college. She really cant wait to come home for Thanksgiving.

GAL has slowed a bit but will get going again in about 2 weeks. I am just too busy with work, its a good thing. I have started as I stated previously to clean every room in this house. It was really far gone and needs a lot of TLC. I need to rake these leaves soon so I am hoping tomorrow.

I have more and more interest from several single ladies, I am clearly not ready for anything serious. I do have to question why so many people have to jump right into a commited relationship. I went on a few dates and sometimes I believe the date wants more. They will push right away for a second date, and then text non stop, it really is a turn off.