Get your popcorn ready. Friday was setting up to be a chill night at home, whole family was there...thats a change. W was drinking....that's not a change. Fast forward a few hours and she had words with S14 who is very frustrated with mother and she decided to put her hands on him aggressively. I missed it but S22 did not and got in her face about this being how she treated him as a child. The next hour was bad, very bad. Breaking and throwing things, harsh words, taking swings at me. Both kids wanted to call police and we were very close before she resided to room to pass out.
Was not a good sitch, accused me of doing all this because kids knew too much. Of course they would know almost everything after 5 months and her behavior. Yes I had said too much but we are both responsible.
Next morning was very quiet, W had discussion with kids apologizing, vowing to get help/IC and apologized specifically to me. Rest of day was better and we hung out on Sunday to watch games.
This morning I heard from IC regarding payment for sessions so W did indeed reach out and set up appointment. We spoke about it this weekend and she said what if IC says to leave me. I told her she shouldn't even be discussing me unless that is where her pain is coming from. All of her issues that she had been haunted with need to be dealt with but said most ICs don't give that kind of advice. They are there to interpret and help cope.
We will see, wasn't optimistic Friday but the weekend ended much better.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
