TBH, I do not want to move into the MBR and sleep on the bed where W and OM likely had sex. It's gross. I like my bedroom more and I'm likely buying my own bed.
Everything else...yeah...buckle in, because now it's getting serious. I'm done looking over my shoulder. I'm done with the friendly small talk. And I'm done with her cheating, lying ways.
Edit: Saw your update, AS. I am forcing myself not to be tethered to my phone. I may have taken off my smartwatch and left my phone in the other room. It does not matter. It was such an obvious temp check with right after she called her mom she called me. It was glaring.
And I hear you on ignoring vs. genuine GAL. I'm just needing to GAL at home as well if I am forced to (I'm cooking, or cleaning, or editing my photos, etc.). I always let her know that D4 is ok. And I'm going to assume when she calls during the evening it's because she want to check on D4. That's it. No expectations.