Originally Posted by NIBS
PSS - W was diagnosed with Menopause by OBGYN after hormone panel tests, just last week. Yay - something new to google and learn about.


Could be a big contributing factor. Some women are largely unaffected by this change-of-life while others can come to view things dramatically differently. My ex went through menopause during BD and I'm convinced it was a factor, maybe even THE factor. There's nothing you can do other than DB- get out and GAL while giving her time and space. For the longest time I told people here that my ex permanently changed after menopause and was no longer the same person. Just in the last 6 months she's suddenly started showing signs of her old self though.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57