She is going to keep trying to use you. And to lie to you. And to manipulate you. And to blame you. And to slander you. There is NOTHING you can do to get her to stop those things!! So how are you going to SHOW her you won't put up with it anymore?
By following through with exactly what I told her I was going to do...finish the D. Hence selling the old car...I can't hire proper representation, but I CAN have then draw up and submit the docs so that I can walk into court with the decree in hand, get it signed, and then go on about my life.
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Stop making excuses and DO IT.
That's exactly what I'm doing.
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Okay, so how are you handling those questions? Are you keeping the answers focused on him? "We both love you very much!" "We are both going to be there for you no matter what!" Etc?
Yes. In fact, that's exactly what I've been doing.
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GREAT! So what is your plan for keeping you dignity?
I'm moving forward in my life. And I'm not asking permission.
