it really wasn't DB'ing. Lol, not at all actually. But you made a tough decision. You're ready to move on, so you're moving on. I think W is scared of that. I don't know what that means for your sitch. Just know that you set a plan and got some stuff off your chest. Now, that's it. Don't revisit, don't keep trashing her even though she is "in the wrong". Move forward. Choose a happy, healthy life for you and your son.
With all the of the OM/OW in this sitch, moving forward strongly like this is the best course of action. You are taking control of your life. Now let her go and don't worry about her craziness.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.