I like that you had D4 answer. I would keep doing this.

Another thing you might want to consider is having D call W at key points. Like call W at bedtime and have D say goodnight.

You could also Let W know that D4 is OK, and that you will absolutely let W know immediately if D4 is not OK.

W:"H, how is D4?"
H:W, she is doing great. If anything concerning happens, I will notify you immediately."

something like that


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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