Thanks Rose888, After sleeping on it and then reading you’re post I can see where you have some good points. The last thing I want is to cut off communication with my H. I think when he said he didnt want to upset me IT upset me because when my S was having problems at times I could not handle it and in turn my H and my S tried to keep things from me in fear of upsetting me. We have since talked about it in therapy and I regret it and apologized. Hearing him say it last night felt like a trigger. I cant do anything about it now, except be more open. Thanks for youre advice , I appreciate it!
