That sounds really tough about your S, it's good that you are his foundation. I have a friend whose parents D when he was a young teen and it was really rough for him and his siblings. Both parents went off the rails and it catapulted him into adulthood. He said while he is grateful that he grew to be a stronger person it took him like 15 years before he could reestablish a healthy R with either parent. I am definitely worried about the outcomes and actions of my children due to this. D5 hasn't reallly expressed any emotional outbursts, but it is bothering her. She asked my Mom yesterday if she was going to D my Dad or if my in-laws were going to D because that will make her sad and D is a sin. This morning she was crying and said she didn't know why the tears were coming out of her eyes when she isn't sad. IC said even in the best sitch to expect some freeze in child development. Unfortunately in this sitch there are no winners.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
